A Simple song, but it's soothing and tender...

 

心如死灰的日子终于结束了.....虽然前面是不可预测的未来，我现在很快乐，很幸福，很努力！

听孙燕姿的我怀念的...在这里和你说再见了...虽然已经很久没见，但是谢谢你曾给我的快乐还有伤害，希望你能幸福...我真心的祝福。

When lico hit her mid-age, she decided to change her lifestyle completely so that she could stay sexy alittle bit longer. She went on a strict diet, she did Billy's bootcamp program, she went to beauty saloon alot, she ate apple every morning, even she quit smoking.
In just three months time, lico lost 8kg, reduced her waist by 8cm, and felt her skin as smooth as silk.
Took a look at her hand, she decided to do some nail art on her ten fingers which could exactly add her 8 points on her hotness.
Afterward, while stepping out of the nail shop, she was hit by a bus.
As she lay dying, she cried out, "God, how could you do this to me?! "
And a voice from the heavens responded, " To tell you the truth, lico, .... I didn't recognize you."

1. "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."
Rebecca- age 8
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2. "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4
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3. "Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5
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4. "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age 6
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5. "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age  4
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6. "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
Danny - age 7
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7. "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"
Emily - age 8
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8. "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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9. "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a  friend who you hate,"
Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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10. "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."
Noelle - age 7
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11. "Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6
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12. "During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8
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13. "My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age 6
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14. "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age 5
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15. "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7
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16. "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4
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17. "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4
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18. "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7
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19. "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."
Mark - age 6
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20. "You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8
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21. And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry" 

 

 

Keep skid chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it counts more than what you say. Make promises sparingly, and keep them faithfully, no matter what it costs. Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it. If criticism is needed, criticize helpfully, never spitefully. Be interested in others, their pursuits, their work, their homes and families. Make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance. Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your minor aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of a load. Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable. Let your virtues speak for themselves. Refuse to talk of another's vices. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be extremely destructive. Be careful of another's feelings. Wit and humor at the other person's expense are rarely worth it and may hurt when least expected. Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe them. Disordered nerves and bad digestion are a common cause of backbiting. Don't be too anxious about the credit due you. Do your best, and be patient. Forget about yourself, and let others "remember." Success is much sweeter that way.

Wabi-sabi 描绘是的残缺之美，残缺包括不完善的、不圆满的、不恒久的……现今一般也可指朴素、寂静、谦逊、自然……Wabi-sabi 源自佛法（小乘）中的三法印（一、诸行无常、二、诸法无我，三、涅盘寂静），尤其是无常。Wabi （侘）原指远离尘世，索居禅林的孤寂，sabi （寂）原指“寒”“贫”“凋零”。到了14世纪，这个词的含义就转向了积极的一面，茶道宗师千利休将 Wabi-sabi 融入茶道，并为 Wabi-sabi 的推广和发展做出了最伟大的贡献。千利休在58岁时成为织田信长茶道师，在织田信长死后成为继位者丰臣秀吉的茶道师，千利休就在担任织田信长和丰臣秀吉的茶道师的20年间发扬的 Wabi 茶道，使用小而朴素的茶室，竹制茶具，将日常物品用于茶道，用简洁质朴的茶具代替来自中国的华贵器具……后虽为丰臣秀吉亲信，但因茶道理念不同，被命令剖腹自杀，死于1591年2月28。（wikipedia）

Wabi-sabi 同佛教中的智慧一样，可意会不可言传，所以这个词用语言来表达时，有很广的包容性。emmas blog中说到，wabi 是在简洁安静中融入质朴的美（比如竹子、稻草、泥土、石头中的图案），sabi 指时间的光泽，比如一件物品在使用中提升了它的价值和美。（Flickr）

我小的时候，也以为自己会飞，可是到了现在，仍然留在地上，时间都用来补小疮疤.

I just watched the best episode of 'Criminal Minds' ever, and I learnt a fabulous quote from Reed that I probably would hold on for the rest of my life.

It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.- Rose Kennedy

I used to be able to do this 'loner' thing so well, you know. But now its getting harder and harder. Its getting rather dreadful actually. The eating alone. The watching shows alone. I used to ace being alone. But now its starting to eat me from the inside and all I want is to... die.

 

坚持是一种美德，是对自己人生的维护。并不是说，经验是多么值得坚持的东西，它只是让我们在判断时，不用贬低，也不用抬高，做一个属于我们自己的判断。

它会很顽固，也会造成很多错觉，但在一个并没有真正的所谓标准这种东西的空间里，它是最好的东西，至少，经由它，我们知道了什么是勇气。

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Giorgio Morandi

“基督的双重本质——像人一般地寻求渴望，却又超越平凡升华为神体，一直是我内心深处难解的迷团。自少年来，我内心所有的痛苦，喜乐和悲伤，都源自这灵与肉之间互久不休的惨烈斗争……而我的灵魂深处就是这两派势力兵戎相见的战场。”——尼可斯.卡赞兹基（Nikos Kazantzakis），《基督最后的诱惑》

A person, unmarried, and living for most of his life in a dingy apartment in a north Italian city: at the hottest time of summer perhaps going up to a village in the nearby Apennines, or sometimes travelling by day and passing to other cities to visit exhibitions, then otherwise continuing to paint still lifes of groups of bottles. The process is reflective yet unchanging for all of his life; a still, contemplative life.

1. Go to sleep at a reasonable hour and get up earlier.
2. Quit smoking right now.
3. Be nicest to my parents.
4. Brush up my English.
5. Make some efforts to keep in touch with my friends.
6. Budget for a holiday abroad, as best as Europe.
7. Exercise at least once a week.
8. Find my love, my true mate.
 

There is nothing left, I cant believe this is happening. It's hard, it's so hard, it's tearing out my heart.

 

 

放自己几天假就感觉自己变得弱智了，总找不到时间做自己想做的事情。感觉记忆力一日不如一日，记记流水账。

和T逛街，没买到衣服，也没买到鞋。

下雨了，没去游泳。

看电视剧，忘了睡觉。

在路上幻想我们的重逢。

面对画纸，脑袋和它一样空白。

听eason的富士山下，分手怎样才能说得如此动人呢？

唯一的收获是starbucks窗边的男孩，eye candy，i love his Stubble very much。

从明天起，我想过正常人的生活。不抽烟，不喝酒，坚持减肥，杜绝一切不正当的思想意识。

我搜索“蒂凡尼早餐”的时候google给出的相关关键字里面居然有一个是“三联书店”！

亲爱的宝贝,

在你还没有正式抵达这个世界之前，我们这一大家子都在忙着给你起个特别的名字。宝贝，你喜欢哪一个呢？没有人会问你。人生根本充满意外，坏的好的，我们都得接受下来。不过不要怕，有些时候因为没有选择的缘故，人们往往走对了路。

 

我有时觉得你的妈妈是世界上最勇敢的女孩，她给与你世界上最宝贵的东西，生命。然后给了我们angel一样的你。所以以后你一定要像爱自己的眼睛一样爱她。

 

你出生的那一天是儿童节，我收到了无数祝我儿童节快乐的信息。以后你就会知道，在这个世界上有两种孩子，一种尚未长大，一种不愿长大。我不喜欢做小孩子，但是我喜欢被人像孩子一般的爱着，每一天。所以我至少要比现在的你幸福许多。。。哈哈哈哈

 

by the way, i was leared the nephew at first day jun and i have a nephew at same day, can i have a son when i learned it?